In the post, we’re going to talk about why men actually prefer to date older women. And by older, I mean women that are men’s age or older than them.
Those who believe that men only want to date younger women are wrong. And below in the post, I’m going to let you know why.
Let’s dive into this by looking at the elephant in the room. Men only want to date younger women might be something you tell yourself, right?
Many of my friends think men are only chasing women younger or significantly more youthful than them, and they use that to put themselves out there. I’m here to tell you it’s simply not true.
When a man is looking for a relationship, he’s looking for chemistry and a connection. All these have nothing to do with age, which is just a number.
What’s so much more important than age is the energy we share when we connect with somebody.
Let’s go ahead and throw the age thing out of the window. There are more relevant characteristics or factors in whether a man will want to date and be in a relationship with you.
Men prefer to date and get into relationships with older women for many reasons:
1 Older women know what they want
One of the first big reasons why men prefer older women for dating and relationships is that older women know what they want.
When a man is dating a younger woman, many times, she’s very insecure and consistently tries to figure herself out and identify herself in the relationship. It can be precarious, it can be very stressful, and it can be very exhausting to be a guy in that relationship.
When you’re dating an older woman, she’s secure. An older woman knows her identity and her desires. It’s a lot easier to be in a relationship with her.
When dating an older, more secure woman, you don’t have to try as hard to keep it together. You have an equal partnership that’s much more enjoyable for a man.
2 Older women are much easier for men to be masculine with
Another reason men love dating older women is that it’s much easier for us to be masculine with them.
Women who are a little older and more experienced generally tend to be much more secure in their femininity. When we’re with an older woman, she knows who she is, how to be in her feminine, and to surrender and receive and honor us as men.
They’re much more prone to allow us to open the door, take care of checks, and be that driving masculine force in dating and relationships than younger women, who may be more insecure and have their walls up further.
It’s just not as easy for us to be in that traditional masculine-feminine polarity with them.
3 Older women have more stories to share
Another reason men love dating older women is that it’s more fun because they have more stories.
Men love to tell stories, men also love to hear stories, and they love to share experiences. There’s a depth to the conversations with older women, and the fun comes with sharing stories.
It’s a much more layered and enjoyable experience getting to know a woman when she’s older, and she’s had more life experiences that she can share with us.
That whole exchange of stories, the ability to connect at a deeper level, and having a common ground in shared experiences are other reasons why men love dating women a little older.
4 Older women are more physically experienced
Another reason why men love dating older women is, I got to say it, they are more physically experienced.
They know what they want in bed and what they like. They know what they dislike, and we don’t have to take the time to teach them.
If you are an older woman, be in ownership of your sexuality and know that you have much sexual experience with a variety of partners and relationships, that’s an asset.
Because men don’t always want to feel the pressure of teaching a woman how to do this and how to do that and how to do all the things they like.
It’s so nice to connect emotionally, intellectually, and physically with a woman and feel like she has the breadth of experience to flow with you.
There’s nothing nicer for a man than being able to flow with his partner.
Remember, from a masculine and feminine perspective, the masculine is looking to be set free by the feminine. We’re looking to be able to relax and let go.
If we feel like we must continually teach our partner what we like and teach them all the things we want to do, and they only have a little to contribute to that dynamic, we have to carry the relationship. We have to carry on conversations. We have to carry things in the bedroom.
With younger women, many times, that’s the position we end up in.
The masculine is really seeking to be set free by the feminine. With an older woman, it’s much easier to relax, be ourselves, drop in and enjoy our connection with you.
Conclusion
I hope this post helps you understand why men actually enjoy and love dating older women.
Don’t let your age be a limiting factor in putting yourself out there and connecting with men because it is just a number at the end of the day.
Men want to connect with women they have chemistry with. They want to connect with women with whom they feel passion. They want to connect with women they feel understood and enjoy being around.
If you can be your deepest self, own your femininity and put yourself out there, you will connect with the man who wants to get to know you.
