In this post, I’m going to share one little shift you can make in the way you’re showing up out there that will make a massive difference in how you connect with and attract quality men into your life.
I love these principles and concepts and helping women create and manifest incredibly dynamic, fulfilling attraction and relationships with men that you are really worthy of.
So we will dive into this topic. I hope this will make a massive difference in your relationships.
A little story to share
I want to start with a story my friend shared.
She was out to a birthday dinner with her two daughters, beautiful women in their early 20s. She’s been very protective over them because she has had bad experiences with men approaching her in a predatory way.
Understandably, she would always be protective over her daughters and not let anyone connect with or approach any of them. But on this occasion, she just decided to go out and have fun with her daughters and have a good time.
They’re out there, sitting by the water, playing, and laughing. They were watching the boats out of the harbor. Then they all go out on boats and drink wine. She’s just joking around with her daughters and having a blast.
While this was happening, three different men approached them to chat and play around. She got to have some enjoyable and polarized conversations where she was in her feminine, and he was in his masculine.
She thinks this is interesting because they commonly don’t get approached when they’re out in public. She realized that by talking together out there, she could get playfulness.
Embody playfulness into your relationship is the key
Playfulness is one tiny little shift you can make in how you show up in the way you’re in the world. It will greatly affect how men see and respond to you.
Are you being playful out in the world?
The way I like to describe it is that every man is at heart. A man is a little boy who is dying to play. He doesn’t get many opportunities to play daily, but what if you embody playfulness in your relationship?
You invite him into that space when you tease him a little bit. You two laugh together when you ask them questions and make jokes while operating from that space. It brings you into the present moment and creates a shared moment. It makes a shared experience, and that is magic.
In my own relationship with my fantastic partner in the early stages of our dating. One of the things I cherished the most about her is that I love Saturday night live. I would put on these old Saturday nights live clips, and she loved them.
We would sit there on the couch and laugh at these live clips. It made me fall in love with her more and love being around her more because there was this element of playfulness and being able to laugh at the same ridiculous stuff together.
Please think about it. When you embody playfulness in how you’re showing up with your friends and out in the world, it’s like a fire, and this beautiful fire emanates a warmth, and it’s the warmth men crave and love being around.
It’s the warmth we want to be around, like going up to a fire and warming our hands.
Whenever a man experiences a woman in this playful, magnetic open space, it’s like a magnet, a fire we want to approach. We want to warm ourselves by being around it. We don’t even necessarily have an agenda. Cultivating spark, polarity, and fire with the feminine is delightful.
Conclusion
Can you commit to embodying playfulness out in the world? Can you commit to laughing and playing with your friends and making jokes?
Being open just to doing things that you have fun out in your social relationships because if you do that, it will make you significantly more magnetic.
You will start being approached more, especially if you and your friends like going to bars. You’re going out to a social place with an open transition of people, being playful, and having a great time.
People will want to be around that energy. They will want to warm themselves by your fire. So I invite you to get out there and have a blast.
[Also read: 3 Keys To Draw His Attention With Your Feminine Energy]
I hope the simple tiny shift will make a massive difference in the man you attract and your dynamics with them.
