Pet peeves… honestly, I cannot bear any of these! They drive me crazy. And in this post, I curated 72+ pet peeve examples for you to share with your friends.
Ever noticed how something tiny can drive you absolutely nuts while others don’t even bat an eye? Yeah, we’re talking about pet peeves — those little everyday annoyances that somehow manage to get under our skin in the most spectacular ways.
I’ll be real with you — some of these might make you nod so hard your neck hurts, while others might leave you wondering what the fuss is about. That’s exactly what makes pet peeves so fascinating (and frustrating…).
What Is a Pet Peeve?
According to Dictionary.com, a pet peeve is “a particular and often continual annoyance; personal bugbear.” But here’s the thing — it’s way more than just something that bugs you.
Think of pet peeves as your personal irritation triggers. They’re those small, seemingly insignificant things that somehow manage to push your buttons in ways that might seem completely irrational to others.
The “pet” part? That comes from how we tend to nurture these annoyances, holding onto them like some sort of grumpy little pet.
The fascinating part is how personal these can be. What sets your teeth on edge might not even register on someone else’s radar. Maybe you’re perfectly fine with loud chewing (lucky you), but lose your mind when someone leaves cabinet doors open. We’re all wired differently, and that’s what makes pet peeves such a uniquely human experience.
1. Sound-Related Peeves
- Loud chewing or slurping. That smacking sound when someone’s enjoying their soup a bit too enthusiastically? Yeah, it’s like nails on a chalkboard for many people. Even worse when it’s in a quiet office or restaurant.
- The scrape of silverware. Ever heard someone drag their fork across their teeth while eating? That metallic screech is enough to make anyone’s skin crawl.
- Pen clicking marathons. We get it — clicking pens can be oddly satisfying. But when someone turns it into an Olympic sport during a meeting? Pure torture.
- Loud typing warriors. Some folks attack their keyboard like it personally offended them. That aggressive CLACK-CLACK-CLACK can drive an entire office to madness.
- Music leaking from headphones. Nothing like trying to read while getting a tinny, distant version of someone else’s playlist. It’s like a mosquito that won’t go away.
- Excessive throat clearing. Once or twice is fine – we’re all human. But when it becomes a constant soundtrack to your day? Time to grab a lozenge, friend.
- Loud yawning performers. A simple yawn is natural. But those theatrical AHHHHHHH-WAHHHHH yawns? Nobody needs that drama.
- Sniffling without tissue use. When someone keeps sniffling instead of just grabbing a tissue, it’s like listening to a broken record of congestion.
2. Social Interaction Peeves
- The chronic interrupter. You’re mid-story and BAM – they jump in with their own tale. Bonus points if they never circle back to let you finish.
- The one-upper champion. Had a rough day? They had a worse one. Got a promotion? They got two. It’s like every conversation is a competition they need to win.
- The personal space invader. These folks somehow never got the memo about the invisible bubble we all need. They’re close enough to share your oxygen.
- The story repeater. They tell the same story to the same people, complete with the same punch line. Every. Single. Time.
- The constant complainer. Everything’s always terrible in their world, and they’re determined to make sure everyone knows it.
- The unsolicited advice guru. Mention any problem and they’re ready with a solution – even when you’re just venting.
- The volume control challenger. These people have two settings: loud and louder. Especially fun in libraries and restaurants.
- The conversation monopolizer. Every group chat becomes their personal monologue. Good luck trying to get a word in.
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3. Technology and Communication
- The reply-all abuser. “Thanks!” doesn’t need to go to 50 people. Neither does “Got it!” or “Same here!” Yet here we are.
- The endless meeting scheduler. Could’ve been an email? Nah, let’s schedule three meetings about it instead. Then maybe a follow-up call.
- The typing bubble ghoster. Those three dots appear… disappear… appear again… and nothing. What were you going to say?!
- The email hoarder. Their inbox has 15,427 unread emails, and somehow they’re totally fine with it. How do they sleep at night?
- The all-caps shouter. THEY TYPE EVERYTHING LIKE THIS! WHY ARE WE YELLING? IS YOUR KEYBOARD STUCK?
- The emoji overdoser. One 😊 is fine. But when every message looks like a emoji explosion 🎉🌟💫✨💕😍🥰, it’s a bit much.
- The phone-at-dinner devotee. Somehow their Instagram feed is more interesting than actual face-to-face conversation. Every. Single. Time.
- The video call background chaos. Unmuted kids screaming, TV blasting, dogs barking – it’s like they’re calling from inside a circus.
4. Public Space Behavior
- The sidewalk blocker squad. Three or four people walking side-by-side, moving at snail’s pace, creating their own human wall. Bonus points if they’re all on their phones.
- The grocery store aisle camper. They park their cart right in the middle, completely oblivious to anyone else trying to grab their items. It’s like they think they’re shopping in their private pantry.
- The line jumper extraordinaire. “Oh, I just need to ask my friend something!” Sure… and now you’re mysteriously staying in that spot. Nice try.
- The shopping cart abandoner. How hard is it to return the cart to its proper place? Apparently harder than rocket science for some folks.
- The public groomer. Clipping nails on the train, brushing hair at the restaurant table – treating public spaces like their personal bathroom.
- The close-range cougher. No cover, no turn-away, just straight-up coughing into the shared air space. Even pre-2020 this was not cool.
- The elevator rusher. They dive in before letting others exit. Basic physics, people – things need to come out before new things can go in.
- The personal space invader. Empty room? They’ll still choose to stand breathing down your neck in the checkout line.
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5. Driving and Travel
- The turn signal ghoster. These mysterious drivers apparently bought the model without turn signals. Or maybe they’re saving the battery? Who knows!
- The parking spot hog. One car, multiple spaces. Sometimes diagonal. It’s like they’re trying to win a “How not to park” contest.
- The merge lane marathoner. Speeds past everyone patiently waiting in line, then forces their way in at the last possible second. Because their time is clearly more valuable.
- The tailgating enthusiast. Apparently reading your license plate from 2 inches away is their hobby. Even in the right lane. Even when you’re already over the speed limit.
- The high-beam hugger. Rolling down the highway with their high beams blazing, temporarily blinding everyone unfortunate enough to cross their path.
- The airplane seat recliner. Slams their seat back the moment the plane takes off, crushing your knees and laptop in one swift move.
- The luggage carousel camper. Forms an impenetrable wall right at the edge, making it impossible for anyone else to spot or grab their bags.
- The boarding gate crowder. Their boarding group is last, but they’re first in line. Because obviously standing closer makes the plane board faster.
6. Home and Living Space
- The dish soaker. “I’m letting it soak” becomes a three-day science experiment in the sink. We’re growing bacteria, not cleaning dishes.
- The thermostat ninja. Sneakily adjusts the temperature when no one’s looking. Then acts surprised when everyone’s either sweating or freezing.
- The empty container returner. Puts the empty milk carton back in the fridge. Because apparently the garbage is too far away.
- The toilet paper roll anarchist. Leaving that sad cardboard tube for the next person. Even worse – putting the new roll on top of it instead of actually changing it.
- The light switch enthusiast. Leaves every light on in their wake like they’re trying to signal passing aircraft. The electricity bill is just a suggestion, right?
- The crumb collector. Somehow manages to leave a trail of crumbs everywhere they eat. It’s like living with Hansel and Gretel.
- The loud door slammer. Every entrance and exit needs to be announced with a bang. Because normal door closing is too mainstream.
- The wet towel abandoner. Leaves damp towels on wooden furniture or worse – the bed. Because mold is just extra decoration, right?
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7. Work Environment
- The meeting monopolizer. Turns every 15-minute check-in into an hour-long TED talk about their weekend. Time is a social construct, apparently.
- The credit collector. Somehow manages to take credit for everyone’s work while contributing nothing. Their special talent? Making your ideas sound like they thought of them first.
- The microwave criminal. Heats up fish leftovers or burns popcorn in the office kitchen. Because nothing says “I hate my coworkers” quite like lingering fish smell at 2 PM.
- The loud personal caller. Broadcasting their entire life story via speakerphone in an open office. We now know more about their dating life than their own mother does.
- The reply-all warrior. Feels the need to keep 200 people updated about their lunch plans. “Can’t make it today” really needed that company-wide distribution.
- The coffee pot deserter. Leaves exactly three drops in the pot, because apparently making a new batch would disturb their chakras or something.
- The keyboard basher. Types like they’re trying to punch through to the floor below. We get it, that email is urgent, but the keyboard didn’t do anything wrong.
- The “quick question” specialist. Drops by your desk with a “quick question” that turns into a 45-minute presentation about their life goals.
8. Grammar and Communication
- The their/they’re/there confuser. Their not sure why they’re grammar mistakes over there bother people so much. (Yes, that hurt to write.)
- The apostrophe abuser. Adding apostrophe’s to every word that end’s in ‘s.’ Because why not make grammarian’s everywhere lose their mind’s?
- The literally misuser. “I literally died when I saw that email.” Really? Are we having this conversation with a ghost?
- The run-on sentence creator. They just keep talking and talking and never use any punctuation and somehow manage to connect seventeen different thoughts into one endless stream of consciousness that makes you forget where the sentence even started.
- The uppercase boycotter. types everything in lowercase because apparently the shift key is too much effort. e.e. cummings would be proud.
- The excessive exclamation point enthusiast!!! Every sentence needs at least three!!! Because one just isn’t exciting enough!!! Even when discussing mundane topics!!!
- The “LOL” machine. Adds “LOL” to everything. Getting coffee LOL. In a meeting LOL. Got fired LOL. It’s not always funny, LOL.
- The comma splice specialist. They love connecting independent clauses with commas, it’s their favorite thing to do, they never use proper punctuation.
9. Communication Style
- The conversation hijacker. No matter what the topic is, they’ll find a way to make it about themselves. Your broken arm? Reminds them of their paper cut from 2015.
- The chronic mumbler. Speaking at a volume only dogs can hear, then gets annoyed when you ask them to repeat themselves for the fifth time.
- The story interrupter. Can’t wait for you to finish your sentence before jumping in with their own story. Your punchline? Lost to the void forever.
- The passive-aggressive master. “No offense, but…” followed by something entirely offensive. Or the classic “I’m just saying…” after a particularly brutal comment.
- The question dodger. Answers your direct question with a vague story about their cousin’s neighbor’s dog. Still waiting on that yes or no.
- The vocal fry enthusiast. Everything they say ends in that creaky voice thing? Like they’re constantly asking a question? Even when they’re not?
- The constant corrector. Actually, it’s pronounced… Actually, the correct term is… Actually, you’re using that word wrong… Actually, please stop.
- The acronym overloader. TBH, IDK why they can’t just say what they mean IRL, KWIM? IMHO, it’s getting a bit OTT, NGL. IYKYK.
How to Deal With Pet Peeves
Look, we can’t bubble-wrap the world to protect ourselves from all these annoyances. But we can get better at handling them. Here’s what actually works:
- Pick Your Battles Sometimes it’s worth speaking up, like when your roommate consistently leaves dirty dishes in the sink. Other times? Maybe let that one-time loud chewer at the coffee shop slide.
- Address It Directly (But Kindly) If something’s really getting to you, especially with people you see regularly, have a casual conversation about it. No need for drama — just a simple “Hey, would you mind…?” often does the trick.
- Flip the Script Try to understand why certain things bug you so much. Sometimes knowing the ‘why’ helps you deal with the ‘what.’ Plus, let’s be honest — we’re probably someone else’s pet peeve too.
- Find Your Humor The best defense against daily annoyances? A good sense of humor. When you can laugh about your own pet peeves, they start losing their power over you.
At the end of the day, pet peeves are just part of being human. We’ve all got them, and that’s okay. The key isn’t to eliminate them entirely (good luck with that!) but to handle them in a way that doesn’t drive us — or everyone around us — completely bonkers.